Hey everyone,
A more thoughtful post again, but a little different as the title says. And I wonder what your opinion about that is, but let’s, this time, don’t be long and get directly to the thing:
Personally for me I started to really hug friends here in september. I actually have a quite good amount of female friends. This is not because I’m either extremely flirty or anything of that, rather it is a cooler experience talking to them, and most of them are very grown up, unlike many boys who are, let’s say, very playful still. *points at his class*.
But this also applys for hugs. Often when hugging them the love that comes through those when I receave those is almost undescribable for me. But this feeling of being lifted high up again from a hopeless ground because yes, we all know it, life isn’t easy. Especially not here right now do to many things. The feeling of holding on to something and being in hug in it, even a little love… This all comes from experience I gained with a friend who I talked earlier about(see how something so obvious can be a life changer). We often do it when we meet which is usually every sunday, and it gives so much energy sometimes, exactly what’s needed for a next week because obviously, in school, there’s noone for that kind of thing the way I see this.
Family hugs:
Now we come to a point where people maybe think about this exactly the other way. But for me, those hugs became more and more meaningless. I’d even go so far and say this is because the religious difference that appeared last year which they’re not completely aware of, that is, me converting into a christian and having growing faith in Jesus. But let’s not get into that thing today.
Mainly I think it also is though because you can pretty much get those hugs every day, it is not special in the first place and usually they’re just given for the sake of doing so. Since hugging this friend I clearly can tell that her hugs have givven me so much more love and lifted me so much more up than any family hug ever did in ages.
But what is your opinion, are you a hugger, family, friends or both?
That’s it for now, take care and bye.
5 responses to “Hug adiction: Explained in my point of view”
Well and I’m the one who excepts family kissing me at some point but I’m anything but a fan of giving out kisses to anyone. Maybe that becomes a problem later on but this is me. Body contact but not this mouth thing for me, wellp sorry. Or when your family members want to kiss you in more public environment or when friends around, surely hasn’t happened in a bit but I think it happened once to me and I disliked it. For everyone here still reading. Do you usually hug all sorts of friends or, let’s say, female/male ones only. Because well I explained my point on that thing.
I like hugs from friends too, but I think family hugs are meeningless and therefor I find them to be awquard.
Yeah same as @Djonan, I only get meaningless hugs if I do. But fully agreeing with him.
Yeah, i get what you mean. Sometimes you just need a hug from someone, which ensures you you still have a meaning to the world, (if that makes sence). I don’t relly get a lot of hugs, but thats okay. But i do get your point :D. When someone from my family hugs me or something like that, it does mean something to me though, but as you already said, that is differend for everyone.
I can get your poit Marc, and yeah, we all need a hug.
And these days I am getting hugs from my friends.